What I've Learnt from "True Relationships Panel"

1. Always praise your future father and mother-in-law. Saying they are 'godly, mighty, anointed men of God'. = )
2. Get covering, parents, mentors, pastors friends who all share the same spirit about your relationship. Covering gives protection. Especially when the question is 'is this the one?'
3. Let off the pressure. Be friends. Do not gossip and let the pressure off staff members of the church to make friends before being scrutinized.
4. Purity is in the heart, spirit and body. You can be an adulteror in your heart while not committing sex outside. Treat ladies like sisters and younger men like brothers. Guard each other's purity.
5. Cannot call after 9:30pm? Just be realistic and act with wisdom.
6. Go out for movies, coffee, hip-hop aerobics, sports groups.
7. Don't put pressure and think you'll know the person you'll spend the rest of your life with in the first 2 minutes.
8. Mike Webber: fasted for 3 months. prayed for 3 weeks. To let God remove the things in his heart from hearing from God clearly.
9. Timing, when you say 'you're the one'. The person might not be ready.
10. 'Unequally yoked' means: you're not going in the same direction. either is not Christian. spritual level different.
11. You need to know God spoke to your heart that that person is the one when years go by and feelings go.
12. Don't discuss feelings or evoke them too early in the relationship. Just have fun and enjoy each other's company.
13. Respect and learn from men and women of God who model relationships that you want to build.